Ralph Kenneth III Dayag. Guinucud

   “The Only Person You Can Depend On is yourself”

Let's all be quite frank and honest with one another. Humans are not the smartest species on planet earth. They do stupid stuffs, they say dumb things, and they also think about stupid thoughts. But one of the dumbest things that humans actually do in their lives is to depend on other people. They don't realize that they can only depend on, or trust in their selves.

They do it every day without even knowing it. They depend on other people to make them happy when they venture out looking for love. What humans don’t understand is that first they must be happy with their lives and with themselves so that the other people only enriches them further, a compliment in their life that is parallel with it.

No one is going to do anything for you. No one is going to help you when you need it most. Friends will disappear and walk out on you. Humanity is so afraid of being alone and looks at it such as a negative thing because they don't know how to trust their selves and depend on themselves.

You need to start getting to know yourself, start understanding who you really are and start trusting your own judgements and decision, because ultimately, that is what will shape your own destiny. Don’t let insecurities and judgement control your life, because those things don’t really matter at all. They are all purely opinions and a lion never listens to the opinion of sheep.

If there is one thing you will learn, the hard way or the easy way, is that when all is said and done, the only person you can trust is yourself. Everyone has different motives and no matter how close they are to you, they will disappear as fast as they came in when you need them most.

Take control of your own destiny and realize that you are the one that is going to get yourself where you want to go — not anyone else. There is no golden road to follow, and there are no handouts — so stop depending on them.